Approaching Political Differences (managing and repairing relationships as a queer person)
Here are 4 things I have learned so far:
So far I have
come to the conclusion that it can be complex enough on the inside f my own
brain to try and just basically maintain, focus, and reach goals and continue
toward where I would like to be. Therefore, drowning out the noise has served
me well!
1.
American News Media Preys on Emotions
POD: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Qza6DSH02fOdYJmj8wRKG?si=SfPhGYYaTLWNUvL9tAaESw
Many years ago there was an earthquake followed by a tsunami
off the coast of Japan. I was shocked by watching Japanese newscasts at the
homes of local friends who were from Japan. The calm voices, the relaxed pace
of speech, yes, there was tragedy and fear, but the Japanese media was not
covering the stories as American media was.
Flipping over to American news I noticed all the hype! Same stories,
same ideas, yet a different approach. It was no longer calm. The terminology
was even strategically chosen to affect cortisol levels and create emotional
fears.
I had to ask myself: Do I want my emotions preyed upon? Often
it is easy to become sucked into an environment online where it is negatively
impacting yet also the excitement can be addictive and enticing in comparison
to boredom or sitting with one’s own thoughts.
2.
Government Prefers Us to be Ill
How can you even tell if you are impacted negatively? Well,
are you feeling it in your body? In your mind? Do you experience fatigue or
stress or worry afterwards?
3.
News Sites Are Inaccurate
I decided to test my theory. I slowed down. I looked on with
amazement on the headlines. I searched and attempted further research on
headlines. To my surprise, most stories I could not find direct newspaper or
articles. I COME FROM A BACKGROUND OF RESEARCH. I have written research papers,
I write and write and write often, and for fun! So when I have difficulty
finding information, I become incredibly skeptical.
4. Even While Avoiding/ Ignoring Headlines, I will still be informed by others
It does not matter how much you try to avoid current events,
someone will always keep you informed. You will see it anywhere.
